May 31, 2003

Stressed? Me?

Thirty years ago, Dr. Thomas H. Holmes and Dr. Richard H. Rahe developed a scale for measuring stress, the Social Readjustment Rating Scale (SRRS). The good doctors discovered that if your cumulative SRRS score were under 15, the odds were 2 out of 3 that you would live the next two years without becoming ill or having an accident. However, if your total SRRS score hit 300, the odds became 4 out of 5 that you would have an accident or fall ill.

You probably remember these:

Life Event
LCU
1. Death of spouse
100
2. Divorce
73
3. Marital Separation
65
4. Jail Term
63
5. Death of a close family member
63
(I'll put the entire list at the end of this post.)

While I generally lead a life of quiet contemplation (Don't believe everything you read), during the past week I've sensed the spectre of stress knocking at my door for reasons that didn't appear on the original SRRS list. Hence, I want to propose an update to bring SRRS into the 21st Century.

New Life Events
LCU
1. eCommerce site goes off the grid for four days
100
2. All email to your site bounces
73
3. Your primary DNS gives a 404 error.
65
4. Your fotoblog no longer displays images.
63
5. You discover that your ISP's whois record contains a nonworking phone number.
63

Yes, all of these LCUs hit me last weekend. Then I found I couldn't post this tale of woe. I'd lost the ability to update my blogs! I wrote that last weekend. Since then my main blog -- and the Learning Circuits blog -- have been impossible to update. I asked my ISP to give me access to a backup so I could export the blog files and start anew. (All this is by email, with long stretches in between, because the ISP does not have a phone.)

In the meantime, I shelled out $300 for an ecommerce package and programmed product descriptions and policies and what-not into it. Uploaded to another of my sites. It doesn't work with the new version of Authorize.net, my credit card processor. No big deal. What's $300 and a day and a half of work when you're in the middle of a crisis?

Moments ago, I went back to the ISP's Help Desk to check the status of my requests. Uh-oh. The Online Help Desk reports that due to a database error, they lost all their trouble tickets. If you had an active one, would you mind resubmitting it. No, no problem. Whatever.

Then the fucking store went off the air again.

What possessed me to give up drinking as part of my weight-loss regime? Anger management is tough. Don't sweat the small stuff, I tell myself. It's only my reputation.

New Life Events
LCU
1. eCommerce site goes off the grid a second time
150
2. Now receiving two copies of every Spam
73
3. You put your blog right on your home page to show you keep up with things but now you can't change it
65
4. You are trying to coordinate a meeting to be attended by 14 companies, all of whom have your incorrect address.
63


The Old Way

Life Event
LCU
1. Death of spouse
100
2. Divorce
73
3. Marital Separation
65
4. Jail Term
63
5. Death of a close family member
63
6. Personal injury or illness
53
7. Marriage
50
8. Being Fired from work
47
9. Reconciliation with spouse
45
10. Retirement
45
11. Change in health of family member
44
12. Pregnancy
40
13. Sexual difficulties
39
14. Addition of family member
39
15. Major business readjustment
39
16. Major change in financial state
38
17. Death of a close friend
37
18. Changing to a different line of work
36
19. Change in frequency of arguments with spouse
35
20. Mortgage for loan or major purchase over $ 15,000
31
21. Foreclosure on a mortgage or loan
30
22. Major change in responsibilities at work
29
23. Children leaving home
29
24. Trouble with in-laws
29
25. Outstanding personal achievement
28
26. Spouse begins or stops work
26
27. Starting or ending school
26
28. Change in living conditions
25
29. Revision of personal habits (dress, manners, associations)
24
30. Trouble with boss
23
31. Change in work hours, conditions
20
32. Change in residence
20
33. Change in school
20
34. Change in recreational activities
19
35. Change in church activities
19
36. Change in social activities
18
37. Mortgage or loan under $15,000
17
38. Change in sleeping habits
16
39. Change in number of family gatherings
15
40. Change in eating habits
15
41. Vacation
13
42. Christmas
12
43. Minor violation of the law
11
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May 26, 2003

There goes the neighborhood

The dogs and I were wandering around the neighborhood and noticed several For Sale signs. (Click any photo for larger size.)


This beautiful place is modeled after a monastery, comes with statuary, niches for relics, four garages, four baths, a lush garden, and a view of the Golden Gate Bridge. $4.5 million.


This Tuscan beauty five doors down the street comes with a new hot tub, a kitchen with Wolf store and Sub-zero refrigerators, and a view of the Bridge through electric wires. $1.5 million.



This place was a disaster two years ago. The makeover leaves a bit to be desired in the fit and finish department. Scant yard. Yours for only $750K.


Across the street from us, a ten-year old, unpainted concrete house by Christopher Alexander. Jammed onto a tiny lot, it's only one room thick. The roof leaks. The front yard is now a monumental dig. It would cost you millions if it were for sale.


And here we are, back at the headquarters of Internet Time Group, our humble home. It's two stories, built on a slope. The dogs love the front deck and yard.

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Prospecting for Gold Among the Photo Blogs

Yesterday's New York Times carried a story on the front page of the Arts Section that claimed:

    For a half-dozen years people have been posting text blogs to rant and to ponder the events of the day and the dust beneath their feet. Then, sometime in 2000, people started posting photographs to go with the text. The photo blog was born.

Funny, I remember posting a photoblog about a trip to Morocco in 1995. These are from 1998 and 1999.

Sites to check out:
The Photobloggies
Textism
Hunkabutta
Fotolog
Seifer's food

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May 14, 2003

Slow News Day


You are a Megnut.

You help to empower expression while getting money for

commentating and speaking -- or trying to anyway.

Take the What Blogging Archetype Are You test at GAZM.org

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May 08, 2003

SPAM of the day

Not Satisfied with your life ?

Take Action Now and Change Your Life.

Quit Dreaming, we have the answer.

Click Here To Get Started!

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May 07, 2003

New Mexico



The photographs on the continuation of this page document my trip to northern New Mexico in May 2003.




The first week in May 2003, I drove from Santa Fe to Las Vegas, then over the Sangre de Christo mountains, through Taos, and a few miles further to my brother's adobe in Arroyo Hondo.

The Sangre de Christo are honest-to-goodness mountains. Desert scrub gave way to pine trees and for a while I was passing by patches of snow. Snow crowned the summits and from the distance it looked like glaciers.

My brother and his wife moved to Arroyo Hondo three years ago. Their place includes orchards, a guest house, a fruit stand they are renovating, ruins of several buildings, terraced fields, and the "wilderness," an untamed patch that attracts bears.

An acequia, sort of a handmade irrigation ditch, passes very close to the house, and my brother was just appointed Mayor Domo. For the coming year, he'll be responsible for overseeing the distribution of water to the forty families bordering the acequia.

The acequias date back several hundred years and are vital to the community. It's rare for an Anglo to be entrusted with the job, and mi hermano figures he will get to know the villagers really well.

Jan, here cradling a neighbor's baby goat, is renovating the fruit stand. It's a mammoth undertaking. She plans to sell fruit from the property, herbal teas, and local arts and craft items. This involves rebuilding stone walls, creating a parking lot, moving fences, child-proofing all manner of dangers, and a lot more that I'd never find the energy for.

Sunset turns the snow on Taos Mountain pink. The is the view from the front yard of the abode. The mountain is sacred to the people of the Taos Pueblo who regained control of it from Great White Father Nixon in 1970.

The Taos Pueblo is the oldest continuously inhabited community in the United States. Only a few of the apartments are occupied full time now but families return to their ancestral condos during feast day ceremonies that take place in the plaza between the two main complexes. The architecture has changed little over the years, with the exception of an innovation borrowed from the Spanish: doors. Originally, all access was from the roof.

The pretty Pueblo church is where people meet to celebrate religion #2, Catholicism.

The people's primary allegiance is to the tribal religion which involves stewardship of nature and the calendar of feast days.

This is the second church at the Pueblo.

The first church is a ruin. During the Pueblo Uprising, an incensed group of Native Americans killed and scalped the governor. The U.S. Cavalry came to town seeking justice. The perpetrators took sanctuary in the church, along with several hundred women and children. When the scalpers refused to come out, the Cavalry obliterated the church (and the women and children) with cannon. The tower is the only thing that remains.

The grave markers are simple, wooden crosses, intentionally short-lived, because plots are recycled.

A few notes on the people of the Taos Pueblo.

  • They have no written language.
  • The word for "five minutes" is the same as the word for "tomorrow."
  • The community has about 3,000 members, mostly living on the surrounding tribal land.

Sun God?

The Martinez Hacienda is a recreation of a colonial home and craft commune circa 1820.

Rooms encircle two small plazas. The Martinez family were well to do by local standards but conditions were spartan.

The kitchen.

The Hacienda has a great display of santos -- statues of saints and the Holy Family. These are particularly graphic, compared to their European counterparts.

Jesus.

The Mexican day of the dead theme gets tangled up with the Biblical.

Moving on, we stopped at one of many roadside stands selling ristras, strings of chile peppers.

The Taos church -- you've seen it in Georgia O'Keefe's paintings -- is over 200 years old. Every year it gets a new layer of adobe.

When adobe buildings are abandoned, they melt. That's why the parishoners apply a new layer of adobe every year.

Mi hermano sent a picture of this ruin to a fellow who wanted to visit, telling him his house was not in great shape to receive visitors.

My brother's neighbors are delightful people with a house packed with beautiful Mexican tile, Oaxaca figures, carvings, and assorted art. Their farm is quite a menagerie. They're raising turkeys for Thanksgiving. Here's that baby goat again.

These burros once ran wild.

The rooster is awaiting the arrival of a new group of hens.

It's not as easy as you'd think to tell the sheep from the goats.

This is a portion of the underground Taos Learning Center, usually called the "Growhole." It's a beautiful space not far from the animals above.

Hippies provided most of the labor to build the Growhole. Legend has it that they were paid with acid or marijuana.

Arroyo Grande was ground zero for the commune movement of the late sixties, the home of New Buffalo, the Hog Farm, Morningstar, and others. The commune scene in Easy Rider? RIght here.

The Rio Grande has carved a mini-Grand Canyon through the land. This view is from the Gorge Bridge, a favorite place for local suicides.

Julia Roberts, a reclusive local benefactor, named the playground she donated at the local school for the laster jumper from the bridge.

A few miles upstream you can drive down to the Rio. Locals fish and swim here. We talked with a kayaker who was going to shoot the rapids. Up the hill is a reknowned hot spring. A tranquil spot.

This is a magical spot.

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